We want feelings that stick, just like we want friends that stick. I know that I want to feel deep happiness that never leaves. Love when cultivated and nurtured stays in a relationship despite the feelings or lack there of. We want stability in some things. It makes us feel secure, even stronger. One thing that we often don't place in that sticky category, though, is beauty. Especially for women. We go about our day acting like it is unattainable. We either give up and wear those T-shirts and sweats that only our mornings should see. Or we spend hundreds of dollars at the salon or department stores, trying hard to get our appearance to par.